Sunday, September 26, 2010

"It Be's Like That Sometime."

Back in the day (which day, I'm not quite sure, or maybe I just don't remember...), there used to be a saying in the Black community that reflected the mood of most folks who felt powerless, and without much hope."It be's like that sometime."
As a striving musician at times I get that same feeling, but then I stop and realize that my destiny is in my own hands. Sink or swim, my fate is mine and only Allah can say whether or not it is for me to have.
I listen to musicians complain about how the industry just won't give any breaks, there are no agents to come see our band. we hate doing cover tunes and a myriad of other things, but the truth is you have to really be on your game when you play music; you've got to take these songs put your own flair into them and make them yours.
Yeah, I get tired of doing endless versions of "Brown Eyed Girl," but I still try to make my girl stand out from the rest.
I recently sat in with my old band here and although they are the covermasters, I found myself having a a ball, in the same way that I do when I play with the Carpenter Ants.
All of this leads me to believe wholeheartedly in what I'm saying here...you have to have fun with this, it be's like that sometime.
For years I've been going to a particular dentist's office. It's just him and his office manager. Whenever I leave there I realize how lucky I am to have found him.
What does this have to do with music, well let me tell you that first, my dentist's office is plain and unassuming, he doesn't have all the bells and whistles like some dentist offices, but he is so much into making you look good and have that perfect smile that you can easily think that you're in the office of the presidential dentist (really, is there one...?). The fact is, he thorougly enjoys his work, and clearly he is good at it.
In other words he's more into making you look like million rather than charging you a million to furnish an office and have several airhead cuties running around ( hey Mike, just a thought...)(only kidding...).
Musicians have to take that exact same attitude and bowl their audiences over with their rendition of that same brown eyed girl.
At times we all feel powerless and non existant, but you have to still keep your head to the grindstone and plow your way forward. Realize how lucky you are to have this gift of music. To get to the Rolling Stones status you've got to roll on your audience at your show. let your hair down and rock the joint even if there are only 3 people in the seats, make it seem like there are 3 thousand people out there. Just remember, you are the one with the power, it be's like that sometime.
Have a wonderful week everybody, see ya at the show.
Support Live music today tomorrow and always.

3 comments:

Sherry Pasquarello said...

love it charlie-so true- RIGHT ON!!!!

Rick Saenz said...

Charlie Tee,

Very early on, Chris and I spent half a summer playing backup for a couple of 18yo cowboy-hatted twins who thought they were God's gift to bluegrass music. We were excited for the mere chance to play for someone, but what shocked us was their bad attitudes about working to put on a good show for the audience; they were always wanting to cut a set short, complaining (to the audience!) about how hot it was on stage or how tired they were, etc.

Their rudeness and bad attitude shocked us so much that we determined that, however little success we ended up having with our music, we would always work hard, play to the best of our ability, and do everything we could to give the audience a good show, no matter how many were there to see us or how interested they were in us.

It took a lot of years before we actually had the skills to grab an audience, but from the beginning we behaved as it that was the most important thing to us. We're still playing for small audiences, but at least now people will actually turn their chairs to look at us, stay for a few more songs, and make a point of telling us how much they enjoyed our playing.

And that's really enough for us. If somehow we had become successful without that attitude, we wouldn't have deserved success (and wouldn't have been able to enjoy it properly, either).

Charlie Tee said...

Now that my friends is the truth...